Today morning, my roommate and I had a strange discussion that kind of sorted out a lot of things for me, but even confused me to a certain extent.
All around me, people are breaking up, making up, getting married and divorced. It all seems complicated. While discussing this we suddenly jumped to the ideal age of when we'd like to get married. And suddenly, I blurted out 27-28, followed by my reasoning for it.
I think for a woman it requires a lot of calculation. In my case, by the time I graduate I'd be touching 27, given I take a few months to settle down in my new job, start dating someone, it'd take another year to actually decide that this is the right guy. But, for women their biological cycle matters a lot, it is advisable to have a baby before one touches 30. Also, I believe that one needs atleast a year and a half into a fresh marriage before one plans for a kid, both to keep the newly married spirit alive and preparing for the new responsibilites. Taking all this into consideration, if I calculate back, I should be actually seeing someone right now to follow through this plan without any complications. Hehe... All this and I was like, God! what has life come down to? Even realtionships need to be calculated! Life is really funny...
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