I think...

Just got over a call wishing a friend who got married to the woman he loved, and it felt like his happiness was flowing out of the phone, I could feel and visualize a guy laughing, blushing, in a trance like situation, so full of happiness that you know he can't contain it anymore. I think that's marriage; when you're sure, this is the person am in love with, this is the person I want to spend rest of my life with. This is what would make me happy. And the day that marks a new phase of your life should leave you in a similar situation, so happy that you can't stop smiling and blushing...

As they move on...

Last few days are making me wonder is love seriously in the air? Everyday I open my facebook account so that I can keep track of what's up in the life of my 200+ friends, and this is very close to what my facebook homepage looks like. The profile pictures are no longer single, it's a couple posing with status messages like, so-and-so is engaged to so-and-so, or so-and-so is married to so-and-so, or better still so-and-so is in a relationship with so-and-so.

As most of my 200+ plus friends seem to be stepping a foot forward to what one would call a settled life, and the rate seems to be accelerating suddenly, I wonder is it going to change anything in my life, will it make a difference if am still single and no longer fit into their cosy couple date evenings? Would I lose my friends who have advanced a level high and taken up other important responsibilities? While on one side I feel happy for them as they're happy with their dream partners, but somewhere in the corner the thought still nags that hope I don't lose my friends.