We've always heard men saying that they cannot understand women, but I guess I will be the first woman to say I don't understand men! Not at all... Yes, I thought I did, and took pride in the fact, but circumstances have forced me to believe otherwise. For starters I would like to clear certain things about us, and by us I mean women.
1) We don't think too much. Even we like to take things and life lightly. Not everything is a calculated, convoluted bag of emotions and thinking and everything else that makes the brain go crazy.
2) We like to keep things simple. No messing with our brains and hearts with indecisiveness, under confidence etc etc...
3) We change, we evolve. If things were not right then, doesn't mean they will remain wrong forever. If things were sad then doesn't mean they won't be happy forever. We are optimists and believe in living life as and when it gives us opportunity to. We simply believe in the fact that in future we might grow fat and ugly and end up losing out on chance to live the life we could have. So, we live for today. I Like something I like it. I hate something I hate it. Today Purple is my favorite color, tomorrow it would be red. But, how does that affect you is the question? So, don't mess your head around with it, and spare me some space.
4) We need space and time. Not to avoid you, but to face ourselves. Spend time with ourselves, to understand the change in us, the bring the change in us. We are never satisfied with the way we look today, and will never be. Just cut us some slack, and let us be with ourselves, for whatever it might be, a big pamper myself time at the parlor, or our beauty sleep, or just gossiping with our friends. And I guess you should like it, given how annoying you find us, when we just keep talking, I am sure even you long for that space.
5) We like to multi-task. And unlike you we don't suck at it. But, I'd also point out that when a woman is listening to you, putting everything aside, she's serious. She's damn serious, she wants this conversation or whatever little thing you are doing. And if you don't pay attention then, then you are definitely calling for trouble.
6) We like to loved and taken care of. The man who loves us truly has definitely been noticed. But, don't try to become our parents, we already have one, we don't need more. We need something we'll ask for it, and if you really love us so much you'll know when we need it. So, simple thing is when we don't just let us be, let us make our own decisions, trust us, we can't be wrong always, and if sometimes we are, isn't there something called learning from our mistakes? Like you never made any....
All this, and I guess that's it. Everything else is something or other that falls under one of these umbrellas. Guess that makes us simple, the only reason I think men find us difficult is probably because they think too much. I mean way too much, for their brains to fathom. I might sound a bit feminist here, which I usually am not, but sorry, last few years and the men around me and my interactions with them have led me to believe that unknowingly they think too much. And the parameters and the process are so alien to our thinking that I guess I will never understand them at all. Not that I want to... I am happy with myself... :P
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