One thing I have never understood is why people take out their frustrations on others? What do they gain out of it? Can't they just sit it out in solitude and get over and then meet people, avoiding the ugly mess, which I don't know if they regret later or not, but leaves hard feelings in others.
What hurts the most is when people are irritated and they refuse to believe you, understand your position, make assumptions and on top of that give proof and defense that they are right and you are wrong. Why can't they for a change understand that there could be truth in what the other person is saying. They might have some reasons, or their action is totally natural but it seems so annoying to you cos YOU are the one who's not in the right state of mind right now.
I have a very simple way of tackling these situations when I feel irritable. I just cut off, spend time with myself and am back jumping like a spring. Not trying to boast that I have never let my irritations overpower my irritations, but ya many a times this steers me through on the right path. But, yes I am yet to master the art of dealing with the irritated others. Especially in the situations where I have simply no clue where did I go wrong, when I have been telling truth and nothing but the truth. It just feels sad to be at the receiving end. If you have mastered the art to deal with the situation, I'd definitely like to give a penny for your thoughts...
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